December 31, 2009 58 deg some rain

I don't think women love as deeply as men do.  They certainly don't understand the way we love.  Men love people and things for vast amounts of time, it's deep and doesn't end.  It's the reason why a man will own a boat through three marriages, or leave a woman cause she wants him to give up his car.  That's love.

 

I think women love ideas more than people or things.  They love the idea of getting married for example, this overwhelming urge from their youth to obtain this fantasy lifestyle of one man a few children a house with a white picket fence, you get the idea.  It's all planned out, this idea in their head, then after all is said and done with their plan they seek out a man to fill that dark figure next to them atop their dream wedding cake.  Who fills the suit is less important for sure than the fact that it's filled.

 

Men seem to go through life always looking for their love, their passion, and they are not necessarily stuck on one.  How could they be, how can you have the feeling of love and not want to experience in greater abundance.  It doesn't mean that when they love something new they love the other things any less, it just means they have more love in their life, more passion and more abundance of joy.  There's no security in it for sure, it probably won't fit inside a photograph and it's very hard to describe. 

 

If a woman is reading this take no offence to it, if a man falls in love with you he will probably always love you even if he divorces you cheats on you or simply decides to spend all his weekends on the boat.  Don't confuse the desire to have more love in his life with not loving you those rules were created by women not by men.

 

Hopefully someday I'll read this and it will sound crazy!